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Posts tagged with intersectionality

  1. the joy of getting off

    Q. How do you have a frank discussion with your partner about getting off, if they really aren’t getting the job done.   A. Many of us have been here - I’ve always thought of a lover’s tactics, as a window into what their past lovers have enjoyed (I hope!!!)  This…

  2. gaslighting, flirting, open relationships - oh my!

    Q. How should I react when I feel like my partner is gaslighting me?  I often get defensive and it only escalates. A. I’m not a psychologist, but if you feel like you are being gaslighted, then it is possible you are, or there is at least some manipulation going…

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