bitty bits

video: how to take good nudes (full)

masturbation or masturba-shun… (part 2)

Q. My partner is masturbating, but not having sex with me. What do I do?  A. Last week’s bitty bits unpacked how to approach checking in with a partner who is masturbating, but not participating in sex in the relationship, where the ‘cause’ is personal and not a reflection of…

masturbation or masturba-shun…(part 1)

Q. My partner is masturbating, but not having sex with me.  What do I do? A. Rejection, or what feels like rejection is tough.  Within a relationship it’s even tougher in some ways, because there feels like there should be more protections against it, or something.  My number one suggestion…

no such thing as “the friend zone”…

Q. My friend likes me, but I don’t like them back.  How do I shut this down without losing the friendship? A. You might lose the friendship.  At least for a time. I blame rom-coms and fairytales for leading us to believe otherwise.   It’s not to say this isn’t difficult…