bitty bits
Posts tagged with consent-culture
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dating app mishap…
Q. I saw someone my friend is dating on a dating app, do I tell them? A. The world becomes super small when reduced to a 5 or 10km radius. It’s inevitable to see people we know - with fewer and fewer degrees of separation - on dating apps. With…
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no such thing as “the friend zone”…
Q. My friend likes me, but I don’t like them back. How do I shut this down without losing the friendship? A. You might lose the friendship. At least for a time. I blame rom-coms and fairytales for leading us to believe otherwise. It’s not to say this isn’t difficult…
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the joy of getting off
Q. How do you have a frank discussion with your partner about getting off, if they really aren’t getting the job done. A. Many of us have been here - I’ve always thought of a lover’s tactics, as a window into what their past lovers have enjoyed (I hope!!!) This…
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dating burn rate…?
Q. I struggle so much with investing time to meet new people and develop intimate relationships because life is so busy. Do you have tips or tricks to invest more time/energy in your sex life? A. First things first, what do you want? Is it casual sex, or building a…