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bitty bits

  1. which lube should i use…?

    Q. Which lube should I be using?  Does it matter? A. Which lube to use can be dependent on a couple of factors - some personal preference, some activity specific, and some health and safety.  Overridingly though, lubricants makes all kinds of sex sexier.   I’ve made a quick reference chart…

  2. sober sex disconnect…

    Q. I have only hooked up while drunk, and now I’m afraid to have sex sober.  How do I overcome this fear/discomfort? A. Alcohol and drug consumption are a huge part of our social lives - can even be considered for many, as synonymous with having fun.  Romance is no…

  3. masturbation or masturba-shun… (part 2)

    Q. My partner is masturbating, but not having sex with me. What do I do?  A. Last week’s bitty bits unpacked how to approach checking in with a partner who is masturbating, but not participating in sex in the relationship, where the ‘cause’ is personal and not a reflection of…

  4. masturbation or masturba-shun…(part 1)

    Q. My partner is masturbating, but not having sex with me.  What do I do? A. Rejection, or what feels like rejection is tough.  Within a relationship it’s even tougher in some ways, because there feels like there should be more protections against it, or something.  My number one suggestion…

  5. video: may is masturbation month


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