bitty bits
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the joy of getting off
Q. How do you have a frank discussion with your partner about getting off, if they really aren’t getting the job done. A. Many of us have been here - I’ve always thought of a lover’s tactics, as a window into what their past lovers have enjoyed (I hope!!!) This… -
gaslighting, flirting, open relationships - oh my!
Q. How should I react when I feel like my partner is gaslighting me? I often get defensive and it only escalates. A. I’m not a psychologist, but if you feel like you are being gaslighted, then it is possible you are, or there is at least some manipulation going… -
dating burn rate…?
Q. I struggle so much with investing time to meet new people and develop intimate relationships because life is so busy. Do you have tips or tricks to invest more time/energy in your sex life? A. First things first, what do you want? Is it casual sex, or building a…