no such thing as “the friend zone”…
Q. My friend likes me, but I don’t like them back. How do I shut this down without losing the friendship?
A. You might lose the friendship. At least for a time. I blame rom-coms and fairytales for leading us to believe otherwise.
It’s not to say this isn’t difficult…
the joy of getting off
Q. How do you have a frank discussion with your partner about getting off, if they really aren’t getting the job done.
A. Many of us have been here - I’ve always thought of a lover’s tactics, as a window into what their past lovers have enjoyed (I hope!!!) This…
gaslighting, flirting, open relationships - oh my!
Q. How should I react when I feel like my partner is gaslighting me? I often get defensive and it only escalates.
A. I’m not a psychologist, but if you feel like you are being gaslighted, then it is possible you are, or there is at least some manipulation going…
dating burn rate…?
Q. I struggle so much with investing time to meet new people and develop intimate relationships because life is so busy. Do you have tips or tricks to invest more time/energy in your sex life?
A. First things first, what do you want? Is it casual sex, or building…