bitty bits
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to tell or not to tell…
Q. I have genital herpes, do I have to tell potential partners when I’m not having an outbreak?
A. From an informed consent perspective, the short answer is yes, this is an ideal. I say that with full acknowledgment and compassion for the challenges often met by folks who are…
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dating app mishap…
Q. I saw someone my friend is dating on a dating app, do I tell them?
A. The world becomes super small when reduced to a 5 or 10km radius. It’s inevitable to see people we know - with fewer and fewer degrees of separation - on dating apps. …
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sex talk: how to…
Q. How do I encourage my inhibited partner to be more comfortable talking about sex?
A. Whether it is in order to establish clear and enthusiastic consent, gauge sexual compatibility, or simply because it’s a turn-on, talking about sex with partners is so important! That said, one of the most…
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is flirting emotional cheating?
Q. I love my partner, but I often get gratification from flirting with other people. I would never cheat, but I feel bad seeking this type of attention - I also get a thrill out of it. Is this emotional cheating
A. I’m going to unpack this question in a…
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sex skills…
Q. How do you feel more confident in the bedroom, whether you’re single or in a relationship?
A. I’m going to go out on a limb and assume this question is asking about S.E.X and isn’t referring to pajama choices… although, that could play a role in increasing confidence!
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