masturbation or masturba-shun…(part 1)
Q. My partner is masturbating, but not having sex with me. What do I do?
A. Rejection, or what feels like rejection is tough. Within a relationship it’s even tougher in some ways, because there feels like there should be more protections against it, or something. My number one suggestion…
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is monogamy, for you?
Q. Polyamory: myth, excuse, or saviour?
A. Maybe 2 out of 3… but it’s definitely not a myth!
First, some useful distinctions. Polyamory is when someone has multiple (romantic/sexual) relationships simultaneously - all with the consensual knowledge of those involved. This knowledge may have agreed upon terms unique to individuals/their…
to tell or not to tell…
Q. I have genital herpes, do I have to tell potential partners when I’m not having an outbreak?
A. From an informed consent perspective, the short answer is yes, this is an ideal. I say that with full acknowledgment and compassion for the challenges often met by folks who are…
dating app mishap…
Q. I saw someone my friend is dating on a dating app, do I tell them?
A. The world becomes super small when reduced to a 5 or 10km radius. It’s inevitable to see people we know - with fewer and fewer degrees of separation - on dating apps. With…