bitty bits
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dating app mishap…
Q. I saw someone my friend is dating on a dating app, do I tell them? A. The world becomes super small when reduced to a 5 or 10km radius. It’s inevitable to see people we know - with fewer and fewer degrees of separation - on dating apps. With… -
sex talk: how to…
Q. How do I encourage my inhibited partner to be more comfortable talking about sex? A. Whether it is in order to establish clear and enthusiastic consent, gauge sexual compatibility, or simply because it’s a turn-on, talking about sex with partners is so important! That said, one of the most… -
is flirting emotional cheating?
Q. I love my partner, but I often get gratification from flirting with other people. I would never cheat, but I feel bad seeking this type of attention - I also get a thrill out of it. Is this emotional cheating A. I’m going to unpack this question in a… -
sex skills…
Q. How do you feel more confident in the bedroom, whether you’re single or in a relationship? A. I’m going to go out on a limb and assume this question is asking about S.E.X and isn’t referring to pajama choices… although, that could play a role in increasing confidence! There… -
no such thing as “the friend zone”…
Q. My friend likes me, but I don’t like them back. How do I shut this down without losing the friendship? A. You might lose the friendship. At least for a time. I blame rom-coms and fairytales for leading us to believe otherwise. It’s not to say this isn’t difficult…